REVIEWS / CRITIQUES / RECOMMENDATIONS Finding Purpose after Abuse demonstrates the consoling truth like no other story I have ever read that faith comes from God. Kathy learned through trials and trauma to let God lead her, share her pain, and heal her from what should have destroyed her.  This isn’t merely a book for those who have experienced sexual abuse. As the sub-title implies, it is “inspiration for all those seeking freedom from their past.” Whether we are damaged by drugs and alcohol, by broken homes and broken hearts, or by the wrong choices we or other’s in our lives have made, Kathy’s book has words of wisdom to give us the strength and comfort we need to purposefully let God change our lives. This incredible journey, this memoir in poetry and narration, is a God-send to those of us who suffer and carry baggage from painful experiences. Its pertinent Bible verses are especially helpful to those like me who are not so familiar with the Bible. Kathy has done the work for us – providing the most affirming passages of God’s love and guidance. In addition, Kathy gives us a list of resources as well as an alphabetical index of scripture by subject. There is an even longer list of help and support on this site. Finding Purpose after Abuse is a book to read and re-read as well as a helpful book to share with friends who are in need. —Candy Smith    Ohio "When words can touch your heart and move you to action, you have a winner book. Reading Finding Purpose after Abuse will be a salve on the wounds of the abused and a path for true healing." —Barbara Khan, President    Prestige Publishing and Marketing   "This book has inspired me and my life by letting me know that I do not have to be abused by anyone that would hit on a female to make themselves feel better. It's not an option in my life anymore; I refuse to go down that road again. And, I continue to keep my head held high not low anymore. Another thing it has done for me is made me wiser since I just turned 20 years old. It let me know that I was not the only female to go through something so critical. By me reading the book, it got me back into church and actually listening to God's word, not just listening to what people have to say about Him. The reason I walked away from the relationship is because I thought I knew my boyfriend when I really did not know him as well as I thought I did. The best reason is because I'm 8 months pregnant now and I would not want my child to grow up around this type of abuse; it's not worth me putting my life on the line for no male at all. I've learned to cherish my life instead of taking it for granted, and to just live life to the fullest, and not take it as a joke because the abuse is not worth it at all. Life is very valuable to me now that I'm on the right path. I will continue to stay on the path and remain patient with God and what He has in store for me because He brought me through so much that I just thank Him now. The words that inspired me to do the right thing!" —Erika W., Student    Life Skills Center, Orlando, FL "Finding Purpose after Abuse is a "must read." Ms. Schubitz pours her heart into the reader’s mind. I could not put it down. God’s blessings and His presence reside in this magnificent piece of work." —Anisha Gipson, Teacher    Orange County Public Schools    Orlando, Florida "If you are ready to witness the awesome power God has in the healing of abused woman, this is the book for you.  The quoted scriptures will provide direct connections between the promises of God and the road to recovery." —Meg Seim, MA    Licensed Mental Health Counselor    Peru, Illinois "I had the pleasure of previewing Finding Purpose after Abuse before publishing. Although not having been sexually abused, I was touched by her personal experiences and felt a sense of gratitude for her Spirit filled guide for those who have been abused." —Kathy Pelfrey, Assistant to    Daniel B. Moroff, Chirorpractor    Orlando, Florida "Wow! Wow! Wow! Finding Purpose after Abuse is a great book, I could not stop reading it; it held my attention. During the reading, I was touched by God, to look at my own life. I have been a victim and an abuser, but I am forgiven in both areas. My CHOICE is to want His will in my life, and His power, moment by moment in everything that Life brings. To walk in LOVE and FORGIVENESS, no matter what His purpose and plan is for me." —Redeemed Male Abuser and Survivor    Orlando, Florida "The only true and complete healing from all types of abuse comes from God, our Creator. Finding Purpose after Abuse beautifully facilitates that healing. Don’t be afraid to open yourself, fully, to His healing for your life. Thank you, Kathy, for listening to the Great Healer for writing this much needed book." —Christine Garlik, Mortgage Securities Auditor    Ocala, Florida "Finding Purpose after Abuse describes the crossing from death unto life, sin to righteousness, life with purpose.  She takes you on a passage of hardship and pursuit to find God despite the sin in the world.  Her life's journey of courage, boldness and quest will bring healing to women and men throughout the world."  —Archbishop David A. Jones    Mountain Top International Fellowship of Churches    Tampa, Florida "The author’s courage to share how one tragic incident inspired God’s call to write about triumph -- despite heartache, emptiness, loneliness, and abusive relationships is commendable and will aspire every reader. This book will open hearts and minds of all -- men and women -- especially for those seeking purpose in what might seem to be a hopeless, unforgivable way of life." —Robert M. Christiano, C.N.C., C.N.H.P., Naturopath    New Wave Wellness    Deltona, Florida "To those who have suffered from abuse--physical, sexual, verbal—this book will help on your road to recovery. Ample scripture verses give solace, guidance, and encouragement as you progress from victim, to survivor to freedom, as a winner.  The author did!" —George Fisher, Ph.D., Master of Divinity    Licensed Mental Health Counselor    Maitland, Florida "Jesus said, "To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne." Life is about overcoming "surviving." Some things are more difficult than others, but we must still overcome. Finding Purpose after Abuse will give hope to anyone desiring to overcome life’s most challenging experiences. The author reveals her story of life’s struggles with abuse and how she overcame. I highly recommend this book to anyone wanting to be an overcomer." —Randy Newberry, Author    If the Battle Is the Lord’s... Why Am I So Tired?    Lakeland, Florida "Everyone has weaknesses. We all have a bundle of flaws and imperfections: physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual. Usually we deny our weaknesses, defend them, excuse them, hide them, and resent them. This only prevents God from using them the way He desires. In Finding Purpose after Abuse, the author invites the reader to journey with her through life’s tragedies and trials to discover a purpose in life, despite human weakness and tendencies. She openly shares her story to encourage others that anyone can be used by God. In the Bible, 2 Corinthians 12:9 states: ‘God’s grace is sufficient for you and my power is made perfect in weakness.’" —Daniel B. Moroff, DC    Orlando, Florida "What a wonderful book! It inspired me with hope, and reminded me of God’s promises. Finding Purpose after Abuse is not like any other book I’ve read on this subject." —34-year Female Survivor    Orlando, Florida "This  message will touch, heal, deliver, and bring revelation to the Body of Christ and the world.  Thank you so much for your honesty, and for your love of God, and for sharing your story." —Dave Kilgore    Trenton, Florida